In Priest River, two women, Bobbie Moss and Traci Conrad, have dedicated their retirement years to creating connection and care through the local senior center.
Bobbie grew up in Oklahoma and spent many years moving from base to base with her then-husband during his Air Force career. When they retired, they decided to visit family and friends in Idaho. From the first trip, Bobbie said she knew Priest River was home. She fell in love with the community’s beauty and small-town charm.
It was at a local bingo night at the Priest River Senior Center that Bobbie met Traci, a retired psychiatric nurse who also found her way to the town later in life. Traci often jokes about being “from California,” explaining that when she and her husband moved north, they were looking for quiet. Within a month, they were already part of the community.
The senior center has been a cornerstone of Priest River life since 1977. It was founded by local resident Frank Chapin, who secured a grant to construct a new building on the site of the former school, creating a gathering space for seniors. He named the group the Happy Agers, a name that still stands today.
The center was also used as a soup kitchen. Over time, it evolved into a social hub where older residents could connect over shared meals and conversation. For many, the only social outlet of the week is attending the lunch.
A Space That Matters
The senior center has become the heart of everyday life for many residents. Bobbie has noticed that Monday lunch guests often arrive half an hour early to enjoy coffee and conversation before the meal begins.
“They’re here by 11:30 for a 12 o’clock lunch,” Bobbie says. “The social time is short, but it means a lot.”
Now open five days a week from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., the center offers free Monday lunches for residents aged 50 and older, drawing around 25 to 30 guests each week. Donations help fund the program, and Tuesday night bingo remains its primary fundraiser.
Each Thanksgiving, volunteers host a free community dinner that has become a beloved annual tradition.
“This year we served 187 people in-house,” Bobbie says. “We also delivered 28 meals to people who couldn’t come and did about a dozen takeout meals. Local merchants support us every year, and we are very grateful.”
Throughout the week, activities such as Sit and Be Fit classes, line dancing, hunter education, Bible study, and AA meetings help keep the center lively and open to all.
Creating a Lifeline for Caregivers
A new chapter for the center began when a visiting nurse asked what other senior programs might be helpful. At that time, line dancing was the only activity available. Bobbie began to wonder what else the community needed, and the idea of supporting caregivers took root.
Neither woman had led a support group before, but the concept resonated with both of them. Drawing on Traci’s healthcare background, they decided to start a caregiver support group under the senior center’s umbrella.
After months of planning, they held their first meeting in June. The group has since grown to include four trained facilitators and continues to attract new faces. Each session begins with a short program, sometimes featuring a guest speaker who addresses topics such as living wills, DNRs, or home assistance services, followed by open discussion.
Bobbie said the most important part of every meeting is the chance for caregivers to talk freely and be heard. Traci agrees, reminding participants that their well-being matters too.
“You can love the person you’re caring for and still feel angry or exhausted,” Traci shares. “That’s okay.”
Traci, who spent decades working in healthcare, knows how difficult caregiving can be. Many people, she explained, do not realize the range of challenges they might face. Some are supporting a family member through short-term recovery, while others are managing long-term conditions like dementia. Through the support group, participants receive not only practical guidance but emotional encouragement as well.
A Place to Belong
Asked what keeps them motivated, both women smiled.
“We enjoy what we are doing,” Bobbie says. “If we can help, that’s what we’re there for.”
In a town of fewer than 2,000 people, the senior center has become much more than a building. It is a place that brings people together through laughter, meals, music, and care. From bingo nights to caregiver circles, the center continues to shape community life in Priest River.
Traci reflected on what their shared dedication means.
“We came for peace and quiet,” she says. “What we found was a community that wanted to grow, and we wanted to be part of that.”













